The great oak west doors of St Nicholas Church

Life Events

Life's greatest moments

For centuries this church has been where our community gathers to celebrate, to promise and to remember. Whatever your connection to church, you are welcome here.

Birth, marriage and death — the church has always stood alongside people at the turning points of life. Anyone living in the parish is welcome to request a baptism, wedding or funeral at any one of our four churches, whether or not you are a regular churchgoer.

The historic stone font at St Nicholas Church, crowned with a carved dove

Baptisms & Christenings

A fresh start in God's family

Baptism — also called christening — is a public act of worship in which we decide to follow Jesus Christ. It marks a fresh beginning and a welcome into God's family, the worldwide church.

Water, oil and light are used as powerful symbols that speak of God's cleansing, soothing, protecting and inclusive love. Through words, prayers and promises — shared by the whole congregation — the service overflows with love, joy, warmth and peace.

It is never too early or too late to be baptised! People of all ages are welcome. For infants and young children, three or four godparents are chosen to make the promises and to help them grow in faith.

  • Open to anyone living in the parish, at any of our four churches.
  • A parish baptism guide is available to help you prepare.
  • To enquire, contact Revd Steven Young (All Saints & St Nicholas).
The aisle of St Nicholas Church leading to the altar

Weddings

Begin your marriage here

To be married in this beautiful, historic church is to make your promises in a place of prayer, before God and those you love most.

We extend a warm welcome to everyone hoping to marry in one of our churches, and we will support you all the way as you prepare for the big day — from your first enquiry to the moment you walk back down the aisle together.

A church wedding leaflet is available to guide you through dates, requirements and how to begin.

  • A warm welcome, whether or not you currently attend church.
  • Friendly guidance and preparation throughout your engagement.
  • To enquire, contact Revd Steven Young (All Saints & St Nicholas).

“Love is patient, love is kind… it always protects, always trusts, always hopes.”

1 Corinthians 13

The peaceful churchyard at St Nicholas, with weathered crosses among the trees

Funerals & Bereavement

Losing a loved one

When someone we love dies, the church is here — to hold the sorrow, to give thanks for a life, and to point to the hope that is ours in Christ.

God's love and faithfulness extend over all creation. As Christians we believe there is hope in death as well as in life. And yet grief is real, even for people of faith; each of us carries our own memories and emotions, and all of them are welcome here.

We offer funeral services, prayers and a listening ear to the bereaved. A booklet of prayers, “Prayers at Home for Those Unable to Attend a Funeral Service,” is available for personal reflection or to share over the phone.

Funerals & bereavement
Please leave your name and number clearly for a call back.
Memorials & interments
Mrs Pat Clarke, Parish Churchwarden — headstones & interments.

“O God, who brought us to birth: embrace us with your love, and give us hope in our confusion.”

Light through a stained-glass window at St Nicholas Church

However we can help

Let's talk

Whether you are planning a celebration or facing a loss, we would be glad to hear from you. There is no obligation — simply a warm welcome and a listening ear.